Madnor warns couples against taking loans for weddings

Influencer Madnor urges couples to avoid wedding loans, advising simple celebrations and smarter long-term financial choices

WEDDING ceremonies may be memorable, but what truly matters is the life a couple builds after the celebration.

Social media influencer Muhammad Noor bin Zakaria, better known as Madnor, has shared thoughtful advice for soon-to-be married couples: avoid taking personal loans for your big day.

As many young people follow trends and seek social media attention for lavish wedding posts, Madnor reminded them that going into debt for a ceremony is not a wise financial move — and that having a simple wedding is perfectly fine.

“Do not waste your money on door gifts. If you want to spend more, spend on videography, photography and attire because these are the only things that will last. You don’t need to spend thousands of ringgit on door gifts. People go home and throw them away. They’re not going to frame or preserve them,” he said.

He added that while it is reasonable to host a grand celebration using personal savings, doing so through loans could lead to long-term financial strain, or even bankruptcy.

“If you want fireworks at your wedding and you use your savings for a ‘grand’ event, that’s fine. But taking out loans is not okay because a wedding is not guaranteed to last for every couple,” he cautioned.

Madnor also urged future brides and grooms to be mindful decision-makers, aware of their financial capabilities and not pressured by partners or parents into hosting extravagant ceremonies.

He further noted that paying excessively high hantaran (dowry) is unnecessary and often burdens the groom’s family.

“Keep the money for your old age and enjoy it,” he advised.

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